For live I use a Edirol PCR-800.
For studio, something with 2 octaves, MK-125.
The important thing is the purpose of the Fantom-XR.
I am carring my fantom-xr in a 19" case because is very protected this way.
The most usefull thing at Edirol PCR is the dual/split function, actually it's very similar to my GW8.
The pads are not very confortable, but I use them as triggers for some samples mixed in a Drum kit
the can be asiggned as loop triggers with latch.
The editor needs a little "midi knoledge" but it can be useful.
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